Ultimately, each child must learn to accept responsibility for his/her own behavior. We can't assume that children will automatically come to understand this. It is our job as parents and teachers to teach them that they alone are responsible for the choices they make.

The "Good Decision Chair" is an excellent way to teach this. Before I was introduced to the "Good Decision Chair", I would just put children in "Time Out" if they were being disruptive. In that way I could continue with what the class was doing without having to deal with the unacceptable behavior. After a while, the child would be allowed to rejoin the class. That really did not change behavior. Children felt bad about being excluded, and it really was not a positive learning experience for them.

With the "Good Decision Chair", children are able to reflect on their own behavior and think about what they should do differently. They decide when they are ready to rejoin the class, and when they do so, instead of feeling bad about what they did, they feel good about making a commitment to make a good choice next time. The "Good Decision Chair" emphasizes improvement and self-regulation rather than unacceptable behavior. It also teaches them that they need to apologize if they have done something to hurt others.

Using the "Good Decision Chair" is an ongoing character development program for the entire class. We can discuss what happens when someone makes a poor choice - does it help or hurt the class (or the individual) - it hurts. Then we can talk about the good decision - will that choice help or hurt the class (or individual) - it will help.

The Good Decision Chair not only teaches children that they are responsible for their own choices, it also helps them develop the social skills to be able to make and keep friends.

The "Good Decision Chair" enhances a child's education because it helps him/her regulate inappropriate behavior and concentrate on instruction or learning experiences that are going on in the classroom.

When my own children were young, it seemed that their inappropriate behavior almost always occurred when I was busy with something, rushing to get somewhere, or on the telephone. In my frustration, I often responded with anger. With the "Good Decision Chair" you don't have to deal with the behavior when you are frustrated or rushed. You merely hand the child the red flag. Later, when things have calmed down, you can talk about it with the child when there is time to engage in positive communication. Because they are sitting on "The Good Decision Chair" with a flag in their hand, there is no chance that you will forget what happened and fail to discuss the incident with them.

The "Good Decision Chair" is not merely a chair - it is an organized, practical way to implement excellent parenting practices.

To Whom It May Concern:
My professional work in the mental health field involves serving families who have children struggling with severe emotional disturbances. My mandate is to assist in creating services and supports that meet the family's needs, and will help the child live safely at home and succeed in school. This work sees me performing the following functions: advocate, case worker, mediator, and parent trainer.

When my client's parents acknowledge that they need the tools and education necessary to give them better parenting skills to help them cope with their child's challenges, my responsibility is to sometimes provide that education. This being the case, I am constantly searching for effective tools to do so. When I was first introduced to the "Good Decision Chair" I knew instantly that I had found something that would be an incredible benefit to the parents I work with.

The "Good Decision Chair" provides a method where children are able to examine their own behavior without blame and emotional pressure. They are also empowered to make decisions from that self-reflection and see success over time. This assists in the development of self-awareness and a strong identity.

Beyond my professional work, I am also a single parent of three children of my own. The "Good Decision Chair" helps me to teach my kids how they can powerfully chart their way through life through making correct, effective decisions.

I give my heartfelt endorsement of the "Good Decision Chair". It is an incredible tool for parents and children to build the bonds of love through teaching and learning from each other.

When I was first introduced to the "Good Decision Chair" I instantly knew it was a product I wanted to share with my grandchildren. I thought it would make a great gift for my daughter-in-law to help her discipline without spanking, and to teach my three-year-old granddaughter the value of making "Good Decisions." I also felt that I needed one in my home so when my grandchildren came to visit I could use the same system, and the bright colorful flags to help them make good choices.

When I purchased the "Good Decision Chair" I appreciated the skills it helped me gain as a parent. The "Help Cards" made me rethink my approach when correcting my little two-year-old. It cost me less than one doctor's visit to gain the knowledge I needed to teach my child communication skills that will last a lifetime. I have recommended this product to my extended family and friends. The "Good Decision Chair" just makes me want to be a better parent!

The "Good Decision Chair" is a good solution for parents and children in allowing time to stop and think about what has happened. As a parent it has benefitted me because it gives me the time to calm down, think it through and not lose my temper in front of my child. When my child is ready to talk, we discuss with positive reinforcement why their behavior was not appropriate. This truly has established a happier environment within my home.